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LifeCity is in a marriage series right now called, In the Ring: fighting for your marriage. So I thought I would add a quick list of five simple, practical things you can do in your marriage to make it better, stronger, and happier.

1. Date nights. We pursue people while we’re dating, and then slow down after the “I do”, and sometimes stop altogether after the babies start showing up. Go on a date again! Invest TIME with your spouse.
2. Do the thoughtful stuff. Flowers, notes written on the mirror, bringing their favorite food for lunch, watching the kids so they can have dinner with their friends…this list is limited only by your imagination. Need ideas?  That’s what Pinterest is for!
3. Chores… Nothing screams “I love you” like doing the dishes, putting the kids to bed, folding the laundry, or making the bed. Especially if it’s a a chore THEY normally do. “That sounds lame…” No, it just sounds like work. You know what’s lame? A loveless marriage… and a dirty house… a loveless marriage IN a dirty house. THAT is lame.
4. Time with the kids. My wife consistently reminds me that the hottest thing I do is spend time with our children. It speaks to her heart and need for our kids to feel loved by their daddy. And, coincidentally, it fulfills a desire in my heart to be a good dad. Win-win.
5. Pray together. This is one of the hardest things to commit to doing. Your spirituality matters, and your spiritual lives together is even more critical. In a future post, I’ll share a few basics of praying together as a couple. If you did pray together regularly at one point but have gotten out of the habit, start by acknowledging that and admitting that you want it to change.

Blessings,
Pastor John

I’ve read a lot articles and posts lately about what proper church behavior, attire, and protocol consists of from a myriad of sources. SO! I thought it was time to give some thought to the subject myself about the how people should come to LifeCity Church. If you call LifeCity your church home, or if you’ve ever thought of visiting us and giving it a try, I hope you’ll consider these helpful tips about coming to our church…

1. Dress comfortable. We really don’t have a dress code… “Sunday’s best” has more to do with how we love than how we look for us. I usually preach in jeans, flip flops, and a V-neck – and I’m the pastor. You can even come to our church wearing a Raiders jersey… because… obviously you need Jesus. (KIDDING! Relax!)
2. Bring someone with you. Life is meant to be experienced in community. So we encourage you to bring someone to experience LifeCity with you. It’s often comforting to know there’s at least one person that you know already.
3. Come early! Currently, we start our main Sunday services at 10:30am at Montague Elementary. But those who come just 10-15 minutes early get to visit KidsTown where their child might make some new friends and have a great time. Also you’ll get first dibs on coffee and pastries… Seriously though, you don’t miss out on the worship, news, and so much more. We work hard to make the whole experience on Sundays an opportunity for everyone to experience God.
4. Be friendly. Every week, I accept that a variety of people come to our gatherings with an unknown load they’re carrying. I don’t have to know everyone’s struggle, but I do need to show them that it’s ok to have one, and that they’re not alone. By offering a sincere smile, greeting, hug, or handshake, we’re communicating to people that they matter. Learn someone’s name. Get together after church. Build a friendship with someone new. You’ll be blessed, too.
5. Come expecting. We believe there is power in people coming together in the name of Jesus, to honor Him in song, open and learn from His word, and encourage others on their journey. We’re better together. Sometimes, when I feel the least motivated, God works in me the greatest. And lastly…
6. Keep an open heart. We would never force anyone to do anything they were not ready to do. Our job as a church, is to provide opportunities, and trust God to work on people’s hearts. So all we ask, is be honest with what you feel God doing in your life. If you’re thinking about getting baptized, let’s talk about it. No pressure. If you’re not ready to sing the songs we worship to, just sit/stand and listen for awhile.

Tomorrow, we continue through an exciting marriage series called In the Ring: fighting for your marriage. I’m talking about the most important foundation of your marriage this week. It’s going to be an awesome day together!

Blessings,
Pastor John

Upheaval was unleashed this season as millions of American Christians suffered persecution from Starbucks over… not putting “Merry Christmas” on their coffee cups…

Wait, what?! This is what’s earning boycotts toward the coffee franchise from people who identify as Christians? I’m kinda ticked about the whole thing, personally. No, not because Starbucks has offended me for leaving out Merry Christmas, but because “Christians” are boycotting the chain for it and making a much bigger stink than this deserves. If you don’t get me, here’s eight reason why this is totally stupid to me:

1. It’s cheap. If you’re upset that Starbucks won’t print “Merry Christmas” on your 2 cent, disposable coffee cup, that tells me something about how you value your faith. Seriously, it’s a coffee cup that you will possess for like, 20 minutes tops.
2. Christmas is Christian. And non-Christian people are recognizing that! That is the reason people and businesses are avoiding it, because it is distinctly based in our faith in Christ. Thank God that people know this and are acknowledging it!
3. Force has never worked. I want the whole world to believe in the Jesus who has saved me and changed my life forever. But I want people to choose Jesus. Asserting that every customer should receive a coffee cup identifying with my faith-based holiday is extremely counter productive to my desire to see my nation come to Christ.
4. It’s hypocritical. Attempting to force a non-Christian company to communicate a Christian holiday,… well that’s about as hypocritical as trying to force a Christian-owned company to deny it’s faith-based standards. Be consistent, not biased.
5. It’s illogical. So what is Starbucks and every other retail business suppose to do this time of year? Have cups on-hand that say “Merry Christmas,” “Happy Hanukkah,” “Joyous Kwanza” and “Seasons Greetings”? Then they can ask each customer what faith-affiliation they identify with (if any) and assign them the appropriate cup so-as to be sure to not offend anyone? That’s nonsense. And sadly if you did think this is a good idea, you’d probably get upset at them for taking so long asking you all these additional, pointless questions instead of actually making your coffee.
6. Consumerism wins again. Instead of making any of this actually about Jesus and the love, compassion, and grace He brought into this world, it’s been an issue of branding a cup of coffee. Unbelievable.
7. Speaking of being consistent… If this is that big of a deal, you’re saying that you will only shop at stores and businesses who wish you a “Merry Christmas” and share all the same spiritual values as you. So no more WalMart, Target, Amazon, BestBuy, etc… Yet I doubt these businesses are going to get boycotted by the “Christian” community, many of whom will be camping out on Thanksgiving night to get the best deals year-around… for… Jesus.
8. People are dying for their faith in Jesus. Our brothers and sisters in Christ are being killed, raped, maimed, and imprisoned all over the world for nothing more than refusing to deny Christ. If you want to cry “persecution,” do it for them – not your pitiful coffee cup complaints. Is that harsh? Not anymore than someone getting their head cut off for our faith in front of their loved ones.

So with all the kindness I can muster, and with a deep sigh, I urge you – get over yourself, fellow Jesus-freak, and go be Christmas to someone instead…

Why don’t you feed a family in need this Thanksgiving? Or give to charity instead of just walking past their red-buckets every single time? Or belong to a church more than just on Christmas and Easter? Or sponsor a child through Compassion International? There are literally thousands of better ways to show Christmas for what it is – God came to us when we couldn’t get to God, and now it’s our job to go show God’s love to others. Point your passion in that direction, and maybe more people would wish us a Merry Christmas one day. In the meantime we’ve got each other, so…

Merry Christmas,
Pastor John